Are you an Introvert or Extrovert in Bed?

Most people discuss the topic of introvert versus extrovert as if it is a black and white issue: a person is either one or the other. Like most things, however, the truth lies in the grey area. To this end, the term “ambivert” is slowly making its way into the mainstream. A term to describe someone who combines elements of both...

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10 Valentine’s Day Ideas for Singles & Couples

One of the most exciting days of the year got me thinking. Where did Valentine’s Day actually come from? Who came up with this brilliant idea? Was it someone with the last name of Hallmark? Actually it was the Romans and it seems when in Rome, do as the Romans do. They came up with this special day in the form of a game show. With...

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Intimacy Defined

What is intimacy and how can I experience it? This is a universal question that I am asked so often that I’d like to give you my definition of intimacy. “Let’s start by breaking down the word intimacy and look at it phonetically. Into sounds very inviting doesn’t it? When you get into something, it means you really want to be...

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7 Steps to a BrainGasm

Sex starts between the ears as your brain influences the kind of sex you want to have, from romantic, playful, intimate, erotic or wild. Then it releases a powerful cocktail of brain chemicals as the sensations of pleasure travels between your legs. 1. With millions of nerve endings in the brain devoted to the lips, passionate...

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Sensual BDSM Preparation

To prepare for your sensual BDSM experience, create erotic energy by setting the mood for getting intimate and feeling safe. Gentle and passionate kisses set the stage for trust and connection, which is very important. Adding ambiance with music, candlelight, feathers, finger foods and drinks to heighten all of the senses can...

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