How to Defeat Passion Assassins

    How to Defeat the Passion Assassins & Reconnect Mentally, Physically and Emotionally First, you’ve got to create an environment that is stress free. Women especially need a clean environment. Wired to be caretakers, they can feel the stress of not having tidy surroundings. Yale professor Amy Arnsten calls this...

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Intimacy Defined

What is intimacy and how can I experience it? This is a universal question that I am asked so often that I’d like to give you my definition of intimacy. “Let’s start by breaking down the word intimacy and look at it phonetically. Into sounds very inviting doesn’t it? When you get into something, it means you really want to be...

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7 Steps to a BrainGasm

Sex starts between the ears as your brain influences the kind of sex you want to have, from romantic, playful, intimate, erotic or wild. Then it releases a powerful cocktail of brain chemicals as the sensations of pleasure travels between your legs. 1. With millions of nerve endings in the brain devoted to the lips, passionate...

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Love Resolutions

Do you exhale a sigh of relief once Valentine’s Day is over and think “Thank goodness THAT’S over?” It can be easier to understand just wanting to get through the holiday if you’re single, but if you’re in a relationship what exactly are you grateful to have over? The reminder that you’re...

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A MINDFUL VALENTINE’S DAY

Mindfulness is paying attention here and now with an open heart and mind. So, how about practicing the art of mindfulness this Valentine’s Day. It seems that Valentine’s Day has become a holiday of great pressure. Those in relationships feel the pressure to deliver the perfect date with the perfect gift while single...

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Erotic Food

Last week I served as a judge at the Erotikos Film Festival where the winning short film was entitled, Beyond Dinner. It was an erotically charged piece that examined a “gate” dinner (“gate” meaning ‘beyond’ in Sanskrit) where men and women enjoy a feast served at a low table with plenty of cushions, and take turns feeding each...

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