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Copulation Plus 14 C’s to Sexcess

  I created the 15 C’s as “A Code for Creating a Confident & Charismatic Couple.” Simply put, it’s a friendly checklist of the elements that make up the most sexcessful and longest lasting relationships that I’ve seen. If you are in a predictable relationship, it’s never too late to make it stronger and more...

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Tis the Season to be Sexy

  Just because the holidays are around the corner, it’s no excuse to give up on finding love or keeping passion sizzling hot.  Make the season a sexy one by treating yourself as if you are madly in love with you. The first step is to lower your stress, which triggers cortisol levels and then increase oxytocin, known as the...

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Passion for Parents

In my seminars around the world, whenever I ask the audience “What Kills Passion?” the first thing that people shout out is “Children” so I know how easy and natural it is to put the kids first and neglect your partner’s intimate needs. A Newsweek study found that married couples have sex no more than 10 times a year after they...

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Intimacy Defined

What is intimacy and how can I experience it? This is a universal question that I am asked so often that I’d like to give you my definition of intimacy. “Let’s start by breaking down the word intimacy and look at it phonetically. Into sounds very inviting doesn’t it? When you get into something, it means you really want to be...

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Let’s Talk About Sex

Sex education conferences are important for sex educators and therapists to share their latest discoveries with their piers and I’m happy to say that I was able to do that this weekend at the http://catalystcon.com/ Below are some of the popular topics taught by experts in their fields.   Does This Panel Make Me Look Fat?:...

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Climax in India

Enlightened by the Dalai Lama, cultured by the Taj Mahal and ready to do three more seminars in Mumbai, Chennai and Bangalore, Paula and I prepared to spend many hours in Indian airports waiting for our flights, some of which were up to four hours late. I had heard rumors that the airports were unsightly, and the bathrooms...

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